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			<title><![CDATA[ Married ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I finally got married Saturday! Now all that is left is graduation May 10th and then it's off to Sunny California.<br><br><br><br><!--EZCODE IMAGE START--><img src="http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b254/MokumeGane/DSC_0440JPG2.jpg" style="border:0;"/><!--EZCODE IMAGE END--> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 22:12:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ When to have another one? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I am truly enjoying motherhood. I love my little chunky cheeks!! He will be four months old next week, so naturally my husband, and I are both on cloud nine.<br><br>Here is the thing. We want to have another child. Everyone has already been putting the hex on me to have another one, but I would like to wait until my current son is at least 3.<br><br>For all the other parents out there, what do you think is a good age to try to have another child? I know it's selfish, but I would like to enjoy... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 02 Dec 2007 23:43:30 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Obesity Crisis and Children. ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ As its been said before that whatever problems America has Britain is sure to develop these problems 10-20 years later. Right now British Health experts and the government are worried about the rapid rise in obesity levels in children. I now US health experts have battled with this issue for some time. I would like to ask as a parent does it worry you about the sort of fastfood diet that children are constantly being exposed to these days? What steps do you as a parent take to ensure that... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2007 12:00:43 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ HELP! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ To all the mommies out there I need some advice!<br><br>My kids 5 and 4 have lost their darned minds!<br><br>It seems just recently I have lost all control. They do not listen, whuppin' their behinds does nothing but make me feel bad. They used to be so well behaved, I don't know what has happened. But it needs to end now while I still have a chance.<br><br>So what has worked for you (I've tried confiscating toys and taking away tv time).<br><br>Charts with good behavior stars? Making them... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 09:45:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ New Mommies...Random Thoughts, Daily Joys/Woes ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Since there are soooooo many more new mommies...<br><br>This forum BETTER pick up some activity! <img border=0 src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/wink.gif" /><br><br>Add your thoughts, joys/woes, questions/advice, even rant about your day. <br><br>If it is related to baby iti s relevant to this thread!!<div class='signature'><i><center>Take Me as I Am: I am human, I am real, I am perfectly Imperfect. The best way to be. The only way God will accept me and mold me. I am the clay, He... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 08:07:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Would you abort your baby if it was going to be disabled? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I know this is a sensitive subject but here goes:- If you went for an amniocentesis and was told by the doctor that your child would be disabled would you have an abortion if it was less than 12 weeks into the pregnancy? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 15:35:33 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Biracial couples may invest more in kids ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18297303/" target="top">LINK</a><!--EZCODE LINK END--><br><br><br>I was left like, HUH? I mean any good parent wants their child to excel and will do what they can to have that manifest. Nevermind the racial makeup of that couple. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2007 06:23:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Getting Back in Shape After Pregnancy ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Just out of interest, how did those of you who have had children, get back in shape after a first and subsequent pregnancies?<br><br>Did you feel differently about your body after child birth?<br><br>How would you say childbirth has changed your attitude towards health, your body and food?<br><br><br>This is just a question from a curious member. Look forward to reading your responses.<!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :) --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Please Help! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Okay so as you all know we reside in Sunny, Beautiful, Expensive Southern California. We want to buy a house next year, or maybe in 2009. We both have jobs and good credit, but we need to pay down debt, and save some more money because what we have so far is not going to be enough. With the baby coming we know we need to buckle down and get going with our savings. We cut everything we could and we are still struggling because our rent is too high.<br><br>Here is where I need help. My husband... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2007 09:14:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How Do You Bring Up a Mixed-Race child successfully? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I have a friend who has two mixed race children. She is black and her husband is white (the children are adorable). I just wanted to ask to those of you who are parents: How do you raise a mixed-race child(children) successfully yet instill in them a sense positive identity, confidence, good self-worth and Self-Esteem despite what society may try to convince them otherwise? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 17:04:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ I'm getting married HELP ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ LOL, well we finally did it. We went and got our marriage license yesterday so we now have 59 days to seal the deal.<br>I'm freaking out as I have no clue how to plan a wedding no idea who may or may not come and a very limited amount of time to get it all done. I'm fairly certain of one thing, we would like to get married on the beach here at sunset. I'm going to shop around as I've been told their are &quot;package deals&quot; for this service that include someone to perform the ceremony,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2007 12:58:23 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Pre-School, Aaaarrrgghhh!!! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Okay, here's the thing. I'm trying to choose a pre-school for Luke. Luke's a big, loud, rowdy boy. <!--EZCODE BOLD START--><strong>I want him to remain a big, loud, rowdy boy.</strong><!--EZCODE BOLD END--> Obviously, he can't run amok the way he does at home, but OTOH I don't want them to kill his spirit. <br><br>Whit and I chose this neighborhood because it was diverse. Well, its not diverse any longer. Gentrification has set in, and its become all-white. We love our home, though we'll... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2007 09:42:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Head Lice and Kids ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I found this website and thought it was pretty cool regarding different treatment options. <br><br>Luckily I didn't go thru this as a child and hope Tiyana doesn't go thru this either. <div class='signature'>___________________Insecure people fall prey to their own self-induced envy</div> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 20:43:39 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ The Perfect Child: Would you create if you had the chance?? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I know this may be a sensitive topic of what I am about to introduce, but I would like to start. How many of you if you had the opportunity to create the perfect child would you?<br>I know in this society we tend to judge people on how they look. Unfortunately this does not exclude children. I am going to be brutaly honest but If I could create the perfect child, I would want a child that was mixed-race or light skinned with perfect blue/green eyes, and asthetically pleasing features. I am a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 20 May 2006 05:16:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Anybody Trying To Conceive ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Is there anyone on the board that is trying to conceive? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 07 May 2006 10:18:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Great Websites for Kids!!! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I came across these websites that my little guy loves:<br><br>This one has four different languages including English.<br><br><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.literacycenter.net/lessonview_en.htm#">www.literacycenter.net/le...ew_en.htm#</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--><br><br>This one has fun games including music. <br><br><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.kneebouncers.com">www.kneebouncers.com</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2006 13:03:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Imaginary Friends ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Did your kids/nieces/nephews have them?<br><br>How old were they?<br><br>When did they stop having them?<br><br>I am asking because my daugther "the Queen" LOL...has imaginary friend(s). One inparticular was named "Pig-a-let"...(yes the character from Pooh) she doesn't have that one anymore . She was about 3 when she had that one. <br><br>Now she has one named "Glora" and he is "Dora the Explorers" cousin...LOL. (she rhymed his name with Dora).<br><br>I had dealt with this by not making it a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 11:39:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How to raise a pimp ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>How to Raise a Pimp<br>By. Darryl L. Fortson<br><br>&quot;Pimpin&quot; is challenging work. it demands managerial skills, financial acumen, and an intimate knowledge of law enforcement polices and procedures. I've observed that a lot of woman seem to be raising their sons (often unknowingly) to become pimps. Usually, when we think of a pimp, we think of a man driving around in a big car with a bunch of streetwalkers that... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2006 20:08:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Thugged Out Little Boys or Punks (rockers that is) ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ How do you feel about thugged out clothing for little boys? <br><br>Is it appropriate? <div class='signature'><img border="0" src="http://www.bjantzen.com/images/dollz6.jpg"></div> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2006 04:49:27 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Hairstyles that are off limits for kids ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ What hairstyles should be off limits for kids? <br><br>Would you allow your child to color their hair? Why or why not?<div class='signature'><img border="0" src="http://www.bjantzen.com/images/dollz6.jpg"></div> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 14 Apr 2006 15:52:22 GMT</pubDate>
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