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			<title><![CDATA[ Sex Drive &amp; Attraction ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I've always wondered if sex drive was related to one's ability to be faithful or consistently interested in a partner within a committed relationship...or just keep FOCUS on their partner physically.<br><br>Over the years, I am starting to believe in this theory a bit more based on observation, general research and conversations I've had with many people about their relationships. I still don't place all of my belief eggs in one basket because there are SO many factors involved in why some... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Mindkandy)</author>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 21:40:01 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Could you be involved in a sexless LTR or marriage? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ It is often said that at the core of most relationships (long-term) and marriages that sex is what primarily holds it together. Althought there may be love and genuine affection for each other. I would like to ask those of you - if you were in a long term relationship/marriage do you think you could survive if there wasnt any sex? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 18:07:41 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Riding the Woman ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ The sexual position of entering the woman from the rear by pulling her arms back whether in a standing or lying position, is this something you ladies enjoy with an occasional butt smack? Do you enjoy having your butt smacked during sexual intercourse?<br><br>-Firebird21 ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2007 16:02:55 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Don' t Laugh at Me ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hey Girls,<br><br>I need advice, because you see, I am really shy towards boys. How do I overcome my shyness? Also, how do flirt with them? <!--EZCODE EMOTICON START :) --><img src=http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif ALT=":)"><!--EZCODE EMOTICON END--> <br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jun 2007 18:36:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Dating/Sex/Relationships ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I had a discussion with a friend over lunch the other day, and we were talking about how men and women seem to be competing fiercely with each other. Dont get me wrong I am all for equality with the sexes, but as an old fashioned girl at heart (in relation to relationships and sex that is), I still think that there are certain acts of behaviour that look worse for women than for men. I think these are:-<br><br>*Being promiscious (having lots of partners)<br>*Contracting and STD<br>*Being seen... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jun 2007 14:19:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Can You Just Be Friends? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Suppose you had a "friends with benefits" relationship with someone years ago. Nothing dramatic happened between the two of you, but you each went your separate ways and finally ran into each other again. <br><br>This time around you strike up more of a friendship than you had before. You talk everyday or almost everyday on the phone because you live in different cities. <br><br>Finally, after several months of talking, you go out together as friends for a drink when the other person comes... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2007 17:57:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Fisting ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Maybe this is just my perception, but there seems to be a larger interest in this activity than I realized. Quite a few women on mainstream discussion boards, in conversations offline and so forth have admitted to trying and liking this.<br><br>I truly don't understand the attraction to this activity and imagine it to be painful and damaging to the vagina over time in terms of stretching it out and tearing around the entry.<br><br>The common argument is that if women can give birth, then a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2007 16:25:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Inhibited (a story ) ]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 18:01:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Black Female Submissives ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I'm sure this has been discussed before, but I'm frankly too lazy to look. Here's the thing, I've never been into the whole BDSM thing. Its always struck me as somewhat artificial. In the realm of IR most seem inclined to make the white man the sub, and that's a definite turn-off. Certainly I understand why that would be given the history and all, but apparently I've got more than a little bit of sub in my own make-up because I just don't think a submissive man is sexy. <br><br>(Yeah, I've... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 16:49:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Romantic Nature ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Would you say in a relationship over time, that you are naturally more submissive, dominant or a mix of both to some degree? <br><br>If the latter, does one component still lead to a degree over the other?<br><br>Is this different in regards to how you function sexually in a relationship...compared to your function in the relationship overall (personality wise)?<br><br>What does being submissiive or dominant mean to you in a relationship? What immediately comes to mind?<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2007 17:10:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ The Dawn of a New Era ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ It finally happened.<br><br>After 6 months and 17 days, MK and I finally met face to face. For more than half a year we have built up an incredible friendship that quickly dove into being so much more and in no time at all we realized that not only did we have an intense connection, but also nearly everything in common on physical, mental and emotional levels. So back in November I booked a flight and a hotel room and flew down from snowy BC for six days on Los Angeles.<br><br>I think it was... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2007 02:48:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ 11 Types of Hoes ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <br>I'm sure everybody know a few of the below:<br><br>11. "The Undercover Ho" - This type of ho often goes unnoticed in the community, and can only be detected by a trained eye. She holds down a decent job during the day, but is secretly hoeing around with at least 5 different trifling men. Two of these men are married, and at least one of these men is dating her best friend. <br><br>10. "The Church Ho" - Her hair and nails is always done. This ho is in church every Sunday and carries a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 18:54:47 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My Ex has Been Actively Viewing My Personal Ad??? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hello Mindkandy's Board! It's been a couple years since I've been around! Long time no visit! Here's my question:<br><br>Our relationship of 3.5 years ended almost 3 months ago. He dumped me so I decided to move on with my life and casually date. To my surprise my ex-boyfriend has been actively visiting my advertisment on the same dating service! From a male perspective why would one do such a thing? Female answers are welcomed, but answers from males much are very much appreciated. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 02 Dec 2006 13:11:05 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Choking During Sex ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Do you find it erotic to be choked or to choke someone during sex? If so, does it matter how long this is done, how aggressively and who you are with in order to be turned on from the act?<br><br>I saw a topic about this on another board and I know a few people through livejournal who admit to liking this act.<br><br>Personally, I don't find this erotic in the least bit because it's too aggressive of an act and I associate it with "attack", "harm" and "control". I don't care for any semblance... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2006 18:48:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ In Love With More Than One ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I came across this topic on another board and realized the subject had never been talked about here and would make an interesting discussion.<br><br>Do you feel it is possible to be truly in love with more than one person at the same time? Why or why not?<br><br>Have you experienced this? ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Mindkandy)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2006 00:25:29 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ First Dates: Biggest Turn Offs ]]></title>
			<link>http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/topic/5185/t/First-Dates-Biggest-Turn-Offs.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ What things would you consider to be utter turn-offs or deal breakers on a first date? <br><br>(<!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><em>even if this is hypothetical for you -meaning you are already attached/married</em><!--EZCODE ITALIC END-->)<br><br>What are some of your worst date experiences? How did you handle this incident(s)? ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Mindkandy)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2006 18:20:36 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How Long... ]]></title>
			<link>http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/topic/5196/t/How-Long-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ can you go without sexual activity overall and/or sexual intercourse specifically...BY choice or due to lack of participants?<br><br><br><br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 11 Nov 2006 16:53:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Best Accents ]]></title>
			<link>http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/topic/5184/t/Best-Accents.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Which accents are you most or least attracted to?<br><br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 11 Nov 2006 16:51:14 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Separate Beds/Bedrooms ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Do you think this could be a productive practice for a married couple?<br><br>Why or why not?<br><br>There are those who do this...they love their spouses very much but the situation may be that one partner snores too loud, the other likes to stay up late, one is a very deep sleeper while the other sleeps light, one likes to read when the other wants to get some shut eye, one watches TV, one likes it cold, the other does not...and so on.<br><br>In this context, sexual activity is said to be... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 11 Nov 2006 16:45:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ bhasmuchsubstance - Write some more stories!!! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hello brian..........I have a question...i've been with this board for quite sometime...approx. since 2001, 2002....got deleted off but had to rejoin again in 2003...anyway, i was just wondering...why is it that you don't post your &quot;erotic&quot; writings anymore? Back in the day, i remember those stories you would post were quite fascinating and creative...I enjoyed reading those...Why don't you start writing those stories again?<br><br>-- I think you got talent!!!<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2006 19:34:42 GMT</pubDate>
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