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pennilish	Are you friends with your ex's?	Lead	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1441 (April 27, 2002 10:35 PM) Ms. Hot To Trot Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Tags : None Are you friends with your ex boyfriends or girlfriends? If not, why not? Or if so, why? I am friends with all of my ex's and sometimes people seem to find that strange. I always reply that if I thought enough of someone to spend a significant portion of my life with him I would prefer that we are at least cool with each other. Also, it is important to me to forgive and move on. On some level if I don't forgive someone, I am not ready to move on to the next relationship. What are your thoughts? Many of my friends have NO contact with ex's.
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#1	[-]
Posts: 0 (April 28, 2002 06:06 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	There was a thread similar to this back a ways. I personally have remained friendly with almost everyone I ever went out with.
Twistie74	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#2	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1471 (May 6, 2002 01:25 PM) Ms. Fuck You smiles Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	What do you classify as friends? You mean "Are you still cordial with your ex's?" I'm still cordial with mine. I don't hate him anymore - I just know how much of a big ol' loser he is...that's all
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#3	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 7, 2002 12:01 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	i am friends with one of my exes. The rest I stopped speaking to. The one I speak to, we broke up because he lived too far away, i mean, when he went to college we barely saw each o ther so it didn't work. The rest, it was personal differences and too hard to stay in touch for me. oh, and Penny! Am I going to miss your visit to NY?? I'm sorry that I didn't get into contact with you before you came... email me at timerat@yahoo.com when you get the chance...
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#4	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 8, 2002 09:19 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I am only friends with two of my exs and it's weird cause me and my ex are like best friends now..even though we had a bitter break up..we're better as friends than lovers.
nicola kerr	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#5	[-]
Posts: 228 (May 8, 2002 09:52 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	i only have a few exes (including the ex-hubby) and we are all friends (except for the ex-hubby) we all get along and i think they know me better than most people ever will. if relationships end because of emotional distance, growing apart, or reasonablel things that happen etc, then friendship after could work, but like in the ex-hubby's case, cheating on me will get you ****ed. Maybe that's why he's on the lam
kKrisko850	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#6	[-]
Posts: 3105 (May 8, 2002 12:39 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	yeah--friends with benefits. i dumped him but i still care about him so does that mean i can't do the damn thing? if i get involved with somebody else though, it would just be a casual friendship with no strings attatched.
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#7	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 8, 2002 02:39 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I'm sorry Krisko, could you clarify that? I can't quite tell what your saying.
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#8	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 8, 2002 06:00 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Before I got married, I was on friendly terms with most of my ex's, and had active friendships with many. Since I got married, I haven't kept up active friendships with many (but there are a few, also a few of my wife's ex's), but I am still on friendly terms with most.
kKrisko850	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#9	[-]
Posts: 3105 (May 8, 2002 07:38 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	weatherman, what i meant was if i were to get involved with another boy, i wouldn't keep on "doing the damn thing" w/the guy im doing it with now (my ex).
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#10	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 8, 2002 09:10 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I'm going to run under the asumption that means you're sleeping with your ex.
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#11	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 10, 2002 07:25 AM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Krisko- I'm sorry... You okay with the break up? www.beautyiswithin.com
kKrisko850	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#12	[-]
Posts: 3105 (May 10, 2002 02:31 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	AW thanks, Yuna. I'm totally okay with the break up. I broke up with him. He got too possesive (you know, they have sex with you so they own you, right? ). That and I just didn't want the "boyfriend" stigma attatched to him. You know what I mean? But today is my (17th) birthday, annnnd, he's taking me out tonight (a really nice place too). He says he's finally happy he can stop having sex with a 16 year old. It made him feel bad.
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#13	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 10, 2002 08:40 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	"That and I just didn't want the "boyfriend" stigma attatched to him. You know what I mean?" Umm, to be honest, I have absolutely no clue as to what you mean by that. Are you just looking for "sex on the side" or what?
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#14	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 10, 2002 09:29 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I've experienced bossy possessive guys but for some reason I don't think that's what you mean. It seems like he's giving you all the perks of being a boyfriend without the negatives, like having to tell someone that you have a boyfriend. If you are going out together, sleeping with each other, and being romantic with each other, it does seem like you are more than exes. What do you mean by possessive? You don't like his attitude? But you like the sex and him taking you out? Sorry I probably don't get it cause it's never happened to me and I've never heard of this situation happening to a girl, maybe a guy, but not a woman. so, I'm curious. www.BeautyIsWithin.com
kKrisko850	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#15	[-]
Posts: 3105 (May 10, 2002 09:52 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	*Quote:* It seems like he's giving you all the perks of being a boyfriend without the negatives, like having to tell someone that you have a boyfriend. well you're sort of right. i am talking to two other guys right now. he's leaving in 3 months, so i really dont see the point in trying to keep things alive when all we really did was have sex anyway. like i said, we talked, but we didn't really DO anything. SO, i figured we may as well just break up and let me be free to do whatever i want with whomever i want. *Quote:* If you are going out together, sleeping with each other, and being romantic with each other... we aren't going out together regularly. he only took me out tonight for my birthday, and there were lots of other people there, too. this is the first time since i dumped him. *Quote:* it does seem like you are more than exes. well, i guess you could call us exes that twerk. *Quote:* What do you mean by possessive? You don't like his attitude? But you like the sex and him taking you out? no, thats not what i mean by possessive. i mean getting into a fight with one of his best friends b/c he (his friend) was calling me a lot and stuff. and i dont mean a quarrel. i mean a really bad physical-type of fight. also, the way he'd treat me like i was some kind of doll. it wasn't disrespect or anything, but i bet it could've turned out that way. but im not sure. i've known him for a long time...
Unregistered(d)	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#16	[-]
Posts: 0 (May 11, 2002 05:32 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	well, i guess you could call us exes that twerk.- kKrisko I like that expression but I have no idea what it means. And I see what you mean now. no problemo... I would do the same thing if I could get all the perks and none of the negatives- as long as the guy was ok with it... www.beautyiswithin.com
kKrisko850	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#17	[-]
Posts: 3105 (May 11, 2002 09:05 PM) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	twerk=f**k well i don't think that i'll be "doin the damn thang" w/him anymore since im seriously talking to somebody else now. it was a tough decision between a few guys. oh, descisions descisions. i'd better enjoy this while i can. i have it good if the only decision i have to make is which guy to go with.
Mindkandy	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#18	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 6912 (March 9, 2004 12:52 PM) Third Eye Dreamer Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Recycling and bringing the subject back: Do you remain friends with any of your ex girlfriends/boyfriends? Why or why not? Do you feel this is possible?
Dark Rican	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#19	[-]
Posts: 10906 (March 9, 2004 02:29 PM) Princesa Latina Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	*Quote:* Do you remain friends with any of your ex girlfriends/boyfriends? Why or why not. Remaining friends has been possible for most exs that were puppy, short-lived, or never really progressed to that next level and those relationships I cherish, but for the ex that I had some type of real love forIT DID NOT WORK. I was straight up and honest about falling in love with another and NEVER creeped (in any way) behind this exs back before the break-up. However, I still harbored guilt and that guilt caused me to try to remain friends or, at least, rekindle/salvage the great friendship that initially brought us together. Now? I DO NOT RECOMMEND IT. Sometimes the friendship was all good, but eventually this ex hurt me to my very soul and said things to me that devastated my heart. Thinking about some of the things he said and did STILL brings me to tears to this very day because while we were dating, he was a wonderful boyfriend. Beyond DONT DO IT, the suggestion I would give is that IF one tries to maintain a friendship with an exonce the ex starts maintaining the friendship with moments of guilt-tripping and I love yous to get his way, dont walkRUN THE HELL AWAY! ~ Fear causes mental and physical stagnation. FAITH is the bravery that trumps fear. If FAITH doesn't work, "don't give a shit" works WONDERS! ~ == T.R. XXXXX-XXXXX
Gaia	Re: Are you friends with your ex's?	#20	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 5749 (March 9, 2004 04:21 PM) Jaguar Warrior Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I have remained friends with some of my exes. A few have decided to be big brothers. Another one and I are like two kids together always pulling pranks on each other. Basically we have acknowledged that we can be good friends but will kill each other on any deeper level. All in all they have always been there for me in tough times and I have been there for them.

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